Divorce guides & resources

Start with the facts you know

A first conversation is easier when you have a short outline of your situation. Estimates and unanswered questions are useful starting points too.

• Note where you and your spouse live, your marriage and separation dates, and whether any proceedings have started.
• List any scheduled hearings or deadlines from documents you have received. Ask a lawyer to confirm what they mean.
• If you have children, describe their routines and the parenting questions you want to discuss.
• Gather available income, account, retirement, property and debt statements. Keep a separate list of anything you still need to find.
• Write down your priorities, immediate concerns and questions about the process.

Understand the numbers before comparing options

Start by separating the value of assets from outstanding debts. If your total assets already include your house, do not add its value again. If you use the full house value, include its mortgage among the debts.

Whether property is marital, community or separate can affect how it is treated. The calculator uses the amounts and share you choose to show a planning scenario; it does not predict a court award. Support also depends on the applicable rules and individual circumstances.

Find an approach that fits your needs

Ask about the lawyer’s family-law experience, the jurisdictions they serve, and how they would approach your concerns. Discuss both cooperative options and how they handle contested issues.

• Who will work on your case, and who will answer everyday questions?
• How will updates, documents and upcoming dates be shared?
• What does the quoted rate cover, what is the initial deposit, and what might change the estimate?
• Are remote consultations available, and what is the expected response time?
• What conflict checks and engagement terms are required before representation begins?

You decide which offices to contact and can ask questions before choosing a legal team.